How to Prepare for a Formal Disclosure
Perhaps you have decided to disclose to your partner (or your partner has given you an ultimatum) the whole truth … Read more
How Does a Quarantine Lockdown Affect Sex Addiction Recovery?
Dan Drake, the founder and director of Banyan Therapy Group, joins me to talk about COVID19 and its impact on … Read more
Getting Great Emotional Connection During Online Therapy
One of the biggest criticisms of online therapy is the limited ability to emotionally connect with the client. Some reasons … Read more
Surrogate Spouse, Surrogate Savior (Part 2)
The newest episode of The Same Boat is dedicated to my dad, the 80 year old fountain of youth 💪 Thank you … Read more
Surrogate Spouse, Surrogate Savior, Part 1
“You are not equipped to give your parents the love and care they needed and did not get from their … Read more
The Dating Advice No One Talks About
Tiger Woods. Amber Smith. Kanye. Bill Cosby. Lindsay Lohan. Seungri. Lamar Odom. Their sex addictions have made huge headlines and/or … Read more
6 Ways to Avoid Regrets on Your Deathbed
Bronnie Ware, a palliative nurse, wrote a book called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. This post is an … Read more
Sex Addiction is an Intimacy Disorder
Chris Williams and I discuss the essential yet often frightening topic of intimacy in the latest episode of SA speakeasy. … Read more
Blessed are the Peacemakers
I published a new episode of The Same Boat! In Episode 19, I interview Cheryl Kang Prout and Vivianne Kelly … Read more
Most Sex Addicts Believe These 4 Things
Whether they realize it or not, at the core of most sex addicts are 4 fundamental beliefs: I am a … Read more