If you have been betrayed by a loved one’s sexual behaviors, I am so very sorry to hear. You did not deserve that. No one deserves to be betrayed.
It is so difficult to know what to do, how to sort through the lies, how to make decisions when you can’t sleep, how to keep yourself from falling apart. It is not fair that because of another person’s actions, you have to suffer and invest in your own recovery. My mentor compared it to getting rear ended: The other car hit you, but now you have to go to physical therapy in order to function again. Completely unfair.
You may be tempted to isolate yourself, sitting in shame and hatred. You may feel no one can relate. Everyone seems so happy and oblivious to your pain. So unfair. That’s how I felt. What I needed was someone who could really get my pain, so I wouldn’t feel crazy. What I needed was some guidance about what to do.
I want to provide both for you. A group of people who get your pain, because they are going through betrayal too. And guidance about how to heal, recover, and make the best decision you possibly can.
Contact me for a consultation and we can talk about your options together.